Monday, March 5, 2007

Throwing punches.

Man oh man. I'm about to do alot of writing. This story can be pretty riveting, or least that's what I've heard. So this is my life. Hope it's as entertaining for you as it is to everyone else. Sheesh.

Saturday night I went out to watch some friend's bands play downtown. I knew that the ex was going to be there. And I braced myself. I said hi to him. I was polite. Later on, the new boy comes to the show after work. We're standing around and out of nowhere, the ex wipes a snot rocket on my jacket. Shocked and annoyed I went to the bathroom to clean up. And while I'm gone, Ryan (yay) confronts Jeff (nay) and tells him he should apologize and that's no way to treat anyone, even an ex girlfriend. Jeff doesn't know who Ryan is, so he says things like "you don't even know about us, you don't know what she's done to me, etc." Ryan ends up walking away as he can tell nothing is getting through to Jeff.

Jeff is stupid drunk at this point. And walks up to me a few minutes later, gets in my face, calls me a peice of shit, yells at me asking if this is my new boyfriend, and then proceeds to try and throw a punch at Ryan. Ridiculous. So, people stop him and get in the way. Friends of both Ryan and I.

The night continues being awkward. I can see Jeff scowling. So we leave. And he follows us out. And again tried to pick a fight with Ryan. Flailing his arms, a friend stepped in. And punched him. And Jeff still would not let up. He ended up leaving because some cops drove past. INSANE.

I did nothing to provoke this. I can't believe this happened to me. I would never have thought a year ago that this person I cared about so much could behave in this manner. If you are heartbroken, beer and whiskey is probably a bad idea.

Now, it feels like high school. Because the ex's "buddies" (whom I always liked) are threatening the beau's friends. The ones that intervened because some idiot was getting in a girl's face. I just don't know what to do. I'm in the middle of this scenario, trying not to freak out and punch someone myself.

I am just stunned. If you cannot conduct yourself appropriately in public, you shouldn't go out. Simple as that.

I don't know what to do.


And I need to make this bloggy prettier than it is.

1 comment:

Amber said...

this is insane madness.
what a mess.
i can't believe he acted like this.
so not jeff.
bummed.
disappointed.
wish he would have been a better man.
i'm sorry love.
ex issues are NO FUN.
wishing you a better day.
xo